I've had a rough go the past handful of months. my dogs health rapidly declined last fall and I had to lay him to rest. on new years eve my partner of about 8 years and I broke up and even though deep down I know it was for the best, its still really difficult to adjust to. (we spent basically zero time apart) i just moved into my first studio (ive never lived on my own before cause i could never afford it) even though i break down here and there, i allow myself to feel vulnerable. last summer i thought i had it made in some shape and form. my cat, dog, frogs, partner, great/big 1 bedroom apt... and now here i am learning to be on my own again. and on reflection i know its a good thing.