Jake Welch @jakewelch

Leave me a note ⤑ ourworldoftext.com/jakewelch ◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇──◆──◇ 10.14.25 #BF0606 yet another negroni 10.11.25 #F2C230 the leaves, finally 10.7.25 #6A8AA6 cloudy sky 10.5.25 #F2EDDC afternoon light in my windowsill 10.4.25 #C990A3 chrysanthemum on the cake ––– Oct 15, 2025 10:33pm Our friends flew home today after a week visiting us. I love the time we spent together and I love the quiet at home when they've said goodbye and I love the anticipation of being able to see them again. The cold has blanketed Brooklyn and yet I'm hesitant to ask our super to turn on the boilers for the radiators. They run incredibly hot; last year I learned from (this article)[https://99percentinvisible.org/episode/mini-stories-volume-11/] that they were designed this way in the early 1900's during the Spanish flu pandemic to allow for open windows and fresh air, even in the dead of winter ——— True goodness is like water Bringing benefit and giving life to the 10,000 things. It doesn’t compete but like the Tao Immediately flows to the lowest place. Everyone else always wants to be first But the wise only want to be last, To live on solid ground, To think deeply, To be gentle and kind, To speak with honesty, To govern with peace and order, To work with skill, To act at only the best time.
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Conversations

  • Why? > Who?
  • Perspective > Anecdotes
  • Deep > Shallow
  • Ideas > Gossip

music, at the moment

  • Matthew Halsall
  • Clarissa Connelly
  • Cole Pulice
  • Horse Vision
  • Pearly Drops
  • Monks of the Nyingmapa Order

things i thought i'd miss, but i don't

  • television
  • microwave
  • twitter
  • washer/dryer
  • car
  • religion
  • dish washer
  • closets

things i didn't think i'd miss, but i do

  • school
  • family
  • desk
  • job
  • mountains

ways i stay grounded

  • keep a morning routine
  • read difficult yet rewarding novels
  • avoid algorithms
  • sacrifice comfort
  • write out observations
  • consider how things are connected
  • notice how big and open the sky is
  • relinquish all hate
  • seek to understand everyone with compassion
  • embrace silence
  • honor things made with skill and craft
  • allow troubles to flow over me like water

5 favorite things

  • human connection
  • figuring out how things work
  • self-actualization through learning
  • feeling zen
  • ? – still deciding...

words I learned while reading and have started noticing

  • Pugnacious
  • Pedulant
  • Gerrulous
  • Highfalutin
  • Taciturn
  • Fastidious
  • Magnanimous/magnanimy

books that changed my perspective on something

  • My Struggle: Book 1 by Karl Ove Knausgaard –– on family and death
  • The Sound and the Fury by William Faulkner –– on how to appraoch recording ephemeral thought patterns
  • The Stranger by Albert Camus –– on being impartial
  • Swann's Way by Marcel Proust –– on memory and noticing beauty
  • Slaughterhouse Five by Kurt Vonnegut, Jr. –– on the effects WW2 still has on us
  • If On A Winter's Night A Traveler by Italo Calvino –– on storytelling